I’m having a conflict with one of my colleagues. It’s really stressing me out. We have tried everything to resolve the dispute, but nothing has worked. I’m at the end of my tether (am Rande der Verzweiflung)
A tether is a long rope tied to a post or a tree that allows an animal to move in a circle only so far from where the tether is tied. In fact, the more common form of the idiom in the US is „at the end of your rope“. To be at the end of your tether or rope means that you can go no farther.


When management met to discuss how to deal with the downturn in our company’s results, many ideas were brought to the table. But it took a long time for anyone to mention the elephant in the room (ein offensichtliches, heikles Thema, dessen Diskussion gezielt vermieden wird) – some people would have to lose their jobs.
We have the Freemasons (Freimaurer) to thank for this idiom. The Freemasons have three degrees of membership – the first is Entered Apprentice, the second Fellowcraft, and the third is master mason. To reach the third degree, a candidate must endure, among other things, an interrogation that is more physically challenging than for the first two degrees. This is how „the third degree“ came to mean „an intensive, possibly brutal, interrogation.“